Economical Entertainment: Cheap things to do as a Student

So this spring break I’ve been taking advantage of a lot of student discounts. However, I think the best deal I got was at RU Cinema. I got to see MoonlightLogan, and Get Out all on the same day for just $17. So I thought I’d list here some of the available cheap versions of entertainment available to Rutgers students.

  1. RU Cinema

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This is a really good deal, particularly if you bring your own snacks. It’s $5 per movie before 6 and $7 after 6, which is insane when considering how much tickets at a normal movie theater cost. Now granted, they only show 2-3 movies at a time, so you’re limited to what they have, but they’re mostly the good or popular movies, so it’ll satisfy most people.

2. Zimmerli Art Museum

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This is a great art gallery and admission is free! There’s always Art After Hours the first Tuesday of every month. My personal favorite is when, during the last reading day before finals, they stay open all night so you can study in the Art exhibits. It’s always really empty and is a really good change of scenery.

3. Performance Groups

Be it the many choirs on campus, dance groups, or theater companies, there’s always some sort of performance going on on campus. Not all are free, but a lot have free tickets available through the Honors Program if you keep your eye on the newsletter.

3. Honors Program Trips

People should really check the newsletters because there seems to be boundless opportunities for free entertainment, be it tickets to the symphony, trips to museums in NYC, or film screenings around campus.

4. RUPA Events

One of my favorite memories from my freshman year is of a friend and I going to a Mystery Dinner Theater run by RUPA. One person at every table was assigned a role and they had everyone go around introducing their character. When they go to the last table, they asked the character to stand up and this six foot guy just shouted back at the host, “I can’t stand, I’m Teddy Roosevelt,” leading to an uproar of laughter from everyone else in the room while his friend explained this was the other President Roosevelt. Outside of that they have a bunch of events every week ranging from quiz nights to broadway shows, it’s just a matter of signing up quickly enough to get a seat.

3. Rutgers Radio Stations

Available from Rutgers Radio and the Core both online and free, my favorite combination. They also provide a really diverse set of programming

4. The Library

I’m kind of mad at myself for not realizing this sooner, but you can borrow DVDs from the library. Not a lot, but as the kind of person who spent three months out of their childhood watching Rear Window every night, it’s nice to have access to them without having to pay for them on Amazon. Not to mention the number of films and plays that are available to stream from the libraries website. It’s useful for some classes and it’s just fun to see what they have if I can’t find it anywhere online that doesn’t cost money/is legal.

5. Cheap transportation

Now if you want to do something in NYC outside of a planned group trip, there are discount bus tickets available for $17(for reference a typical round trip train ticket from New Brunswick costs $28). If you’re going regularly, it’s probably better to get the monthly pass from NJ Transit, but I went to the Met Opera for the first time last week (in the cheap $27 seats on the top floor) and that was a real money saver.

5 Things You’ll Only Find At the Honors Program Formal

1. A Button Making Station
Often times, a lot of Rutgers events will have dorky little arts and crafts type activities for people to do that no one usually ever does. At this event it seemed to be the button making station, or so everyone thought. At the formal, however, there was a long line of students all equally giddy to make buttons.

2. Guy in the horse head
During the dance, a random guy showed up on the dance floor wearing a horse head and had some pretty awesome dance moves. He definitely made the night a lot more interesting.

3. A whole new environment
The honors kids that you have seen hiding behind books at the library, staring at their laptops, and furiously entering numbers on their calculator all finally came out of their shell. I saw the people usually in Rutgers sweats and t-shirts with perfectly contoured cheekbones and crisply ironed dress shirts, all showing off their amazing dance moves.

4. Good Food
I’m not saying that the dining hall doesn’t have great food ;), but the food at the Heldrich was extraordinary. There were 3 types of dessert and all of them were amazing.

5. Dancing Deans
I think the best part was watching the Honors Deans bust a move. They all seemed so genuinely into it and were having a great time. They were also sweet enough to spare time to take cute Polaroids of us.

All in all, it was a classy event with some great food, great music, and great people. If you couldn’t make it this year I highly recommend you check it out next year!

A Semester of Shakespeare

If you’re in the honors program, you may or may not have heard about interdisciplinary honors seminars (if it doesn’t come across clearly, that is meant to be sarcastic). They’re really good for exploring different topics, interacting with interesting professors, and/or meeting honors requirements.

For a combination of the first and last reasons, I signed up to take ‘Shakespeare in the Now‘ this semester (though Professor Bartels is really awesome too!).

In regard to the first reason, I’ve always been really into Literary Inspired Web Series (LIWS), series on youtube that adapt works of classic literature. The trend started in 2012 with the Lizzie Bennet Diaries and since then, many groups, almost all small clusters of passionate book nerds with cameras, have given it a try, adapting everything from Peter Pan to Jane Eyre to The Importance of Being Earnest, with mixed results (see a full list here). One of my favorite of these groups is The Candle Wasters, a group out of New Zealand. So far they’ve adapted Much Ado About Nothing, Love’s Labour Lost, and Midsummer Night’s Dream, using the plays as a framework to explore many issues including sexism, gender identity, sexuality, dependency on technology, and climate change, all while still being incredibly entertaining and remaining surprisingly faithful to Shakespeare’s works. Because of this group, the idea of discussing the way Shakespeare can still be relevant today seems even more fascinating to me than it normally would.

As for the second reason: I need 3 more honors credits to stay in the program.

Anyway, the class is really interesting since we get to go and talk about reading and adapting Shakespeare for three hours every week and, even if LIWSes haven’t entered the conversation, it’s still an interesting way to frame discussions about modern issues.

Part of this is seeing different productions of Shakespeare’s works. In addition to assigned readings, we’re also supposed to watch different adaptations that are available from Rutgers’ Libraries, like Kenneth Branagh’s Hamlet. In addition to this, we got to go see a live performance of Hamlet at the McCarter Theater in Princeton, tickets and transportation paid for by the Honors Program.

And it was brilliant, fantastic, molto bene!

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The performance was by a group from NYC called the Bedlam Theater Troupe. In the production, 4 actors play all the roles in Hamlet. If you’re unaware, that’s 20+ roles, one of which has the largest number of lines for a role out there, bouncing between 4 people. Still, they managed to make it work with minimal sets and some audience participation. All the actors were amazing and their interpretation managed to make a tragedy seem comedic for a large majority of the time. It provided us with a lot of things to discuss in class the next day.

Beyond the performances, the class also gained a new dimension last week when we discussed King Richard III and fake news. This week we’re going to discuss Measure for Measure, which will definitely be an interesting discussion about power, surveillance, and forgiveness.

Towards the end of the semester, we’re supposed to do a group project where we use Shakespeare to explore a social issue that interests us. I’m hoping my group will find the idea of something like a LIWS as interesting as I do, because, while this class is great so far, making one of those series would be a dream come true.

Rutgers Press Internship

Since freshman year, I’ve read the SASHP Newsletter every week when it comes out. Often, there are a bunch of cool events and/or opportunities that I would love to try, but often there are schedule conflicts.

However, in one of the first few this fall, there was an announcement for an internship in the Health and Clinical Medicine Department at the Rutgers University Press. As someone with a heavy background in both biology and grammar, this seemed to be a perfect way to combine my bio and language knowledge in a unique way. Thankfully, it was perfectly timed to allow me to apply as well. I had just enough time in my schedule to squeeze it into my schedule.

So I sent in a resume and cover letter. Two weeks later I had an interview and I got the job. And honestly, it’s a really great experience(and I get paid!).

My internship is in the Acquisitions Department, which focuses on recruiting editors/authors, making sure that they submit their manuscripts on time, and preparing those manuscripts for editing and publishing. Mostly, I communicate with editors/authors and work on contracts and manuscript prep, plus any other miscellaneous tasks that my supervisor can come up with.

While that might sound boring, the array of books we work on makes it pretty interesting. We work on everything from textbooks to self-care manuals to books about advances in a particular specialty. They have editors and contributing authors from not only New Brunswick (i.e. Rutgers, RWJ), but from Chicago, Arkansas, Dublin, Athens, and Mannheim. And while the writing may at times be dry or formatted completely incorrectly, the topics are always diverse and range from epilepsy to cardiovascular health to ovarian cancer. Now we’re even working on some more unique volumes like a children’s book to help those with special sleeping issues and a medical school textbook that helps to teach psychology through film (mostly the one’s based on Stephen King novels).

All of which make the work, which is at times is boring, incredibly cool.

My supervisor is new to her position, having only taken it three months before I arrived, meaning we’re learning a lot of department procedures together. This is the third internship-type position I’ve had with someone who was relatively new to the position. It’s a situation that I think is beneficial if you’re just starting out in a certain workplace. Since the supervisor doesn’t have an established rhythm, you have the opportunity to work with them to mold the position into something that works for both of you rather than having to fill the shoes of a previous employee. That gives you a chance to do more or less or maybe just different things than others in your position, as long as your boss likes it.

For example, in this internship, I’ve not only managed communications with editors/authors, created contracts, and formatted/edited manuscripts like other interns, but have also done illustrations, helped develop proposals, and helped calculate budgets.

Overall, this has been a cool experience that has combined two things I have studied a lot of over my college career and has introduced me to a career field that I wouldn’t have even thought of otherwise. Thankfully, I read the SASHP Newsletter, otherwise I wouldn’t have found out about it.

Over in the Blink of an Eye

It is truly unbelievable how fast time has flown by. Before leaving for Australia, I was playing this game called Cow Evolution where the aim is to collect different cows and evolve them into other ones. You earn coins and gems as you continue to play. Eventually, you reach a point where you can no longer evolve the cows. When that happens, you have the opportunity to restart the game and try to unlock the different cows again. This time, you get to keep the coins and gems earned in the previous attempt. During the first few weeks in Brisbane, Australia at The University of Queensland, I felt like a freshman again. I attended a new student orientation where I didn’t know anyone, was placed in housing with strangers, and was doe-eyed and excited to begin the semester in a foreign place. But, unlike freshman year, I was starting this semester with all the skills and knowledge that I gained from the previous years at university, similar to the gems and coins that carry over in new rounds in Cow Evolution.

The St. Lucia Campus, where ibis and bush turkeys roam abundantly, is gorgeous, especially the Great Court, which is similar to a bigger version of Vorhees Mall on College Ave. Enclosed by grand, sandstone buildings, it is a great place to rest in between classes. The pockets of construction on campus made me feel like I was still at Rutgers–just a little bit.

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A view of the Great Court

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Every Wednesday, market stalls would pop up on campus and students could peruse through booths of handmade jewelry, clothes, and flowers. There was even an eyebrow threading booth!

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A view of the stalls on campus

A quick and easy lunch option was a sausage sizzle, which different clubs and organizations would have daily. This wonderfully simple sausage placed diagonally on a slice of white toast with optional grilled onions never failed to satiate my hunger.

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A sausage sizzle ❤

Because UQ is a foreign university, I had to adjust to the different grading system and teaching methods. Most lectures, regardless of the subject, are recorded so students aren’t required to go to class. Recitations, or tutorials as they are called there, often aren’t required either. Whether attendance factors into your overall grade or not depends on the class.

In the first lectures of the semester, the teachers would pay respect to the aboriginal ancestors and to the land. Australian Aboriginals have a strong connection to the land and have this concept of turning a space–empty and foreign–into a place, which is familiar and full of meaning. Inhabiting an area and making memories in the environment is how to give it meaning and turn it into a place. Over the course of a semester, I’ve turned UQ, Brisbane, and even Australia, into a place, a home. It’s also what has happened at Rutgers: Australia was wonderful, but there is no place like home. And at the end of my six months, I was ready to come back to Jersey.

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A strange place that became my home

This experience will forever hold great importance in my life. Australia is rich in cultures and I have greatly enjoyed learning about them. The knowledge I have gained at UQ will undoubtedly stay with me into adulthood. The conversations I have had with other students at UQ and with travelers I have met on adventures have enriched my life and challenged how I view the world. I have come away from these five months with a different mindset, a strengthened sense of self, and a broader and more informed viewpoint on certain events occurring in the world. I feel different, a good different, and I know I have grown so much during this past semester.

I encourage you, if possible, to take that leap out of your comfort zone and study abroad. Or if that’s not possible, spend some time and live somewhere new for a little bit. It’s an experience you won’t regret.

On an Island in the Sun

“On an island in the sun / we’ll be playing and having fun” 

These lyrics from Weezer’s “Island in the Sun” accurately describe my Spring Break. It’s always difficult, yet fun, to plan out activities for that week. For me, having been abroad, staying at my house in Brisbane was not the number one option. While friends and neighbors were going to New Zealand, Thailand, Fiji, or Bali, I chose to go to Fraser Island with my ecology class.

What’s Fraser Island, you ask? Why, it’s only the WORLD’S LARGEST sand island. I can tell that you are super impressed by this but Fraser Island is pretty impressive. Despite consisting solely of sand, this island supports a variety of vegetation, birds, reptiles, rodents, and mammals. When was the last time you saw a fifty-foot tree growing in sand and not soil?

Because I went here on a class trip, for me, the entire week was not all fun and games. Half of the day was spent doing field work, i.e. collecting data for a report due later in the semester. But the other half of the day was spent relaxing at one of the many beautiful lakes on the island.

Before stepping on to the island, visitors are reminded to be cautious of the wild dingoes that live there. While the dingoes are used to human presence, they should not be approached or fed.

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Always. For their sake and yours.

We had to board this barge to cross over to Fraser Island.

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Our transportation to paradise

Lake Birrabeen was the first lake we visited and made a great first impression for what the rest of the trip, relaxation-wise, would be like. The water was clear and refreshing but rippled from splashes from a game of keep-it-up.

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The water is like a mirror

This gorgeous burnt-orange-colored dingo posed for pictures near where a few of us were standing.

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He is not afraid of humans at all

After a long hike identifying trees in the forest, we arrived at the most exciting lake: Lake Boomanjin. The water is clear but tinted red. The entire lake is reddened by the leaves that fall in, which contain a natural tannin similar to tea leaves.

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Obviously had to get a selfie with the red water

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It was pretty cool

We saw many, many different species of plants, including this Scribbly Gum, which gets its name from the scribbled trails that larvae make in the bark.

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One of the cooler trees

Of course big spiders are lurking in the forests. This is Australia.

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*shudder*

A sand island wouldn’t be complete without a sand dune.

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It would be fun to slide down this

This is a strangler fig, which is also pretty cool.

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Wow so many cool interesting pictures of trees

There are plenty of beaches, lakes, and sand dunes on Fraser Island but there are also rainforests. Who knew that rainforests could survive in sand and in Australia?

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Lake McKenzie was by far the most beautiful lake that we saw. One of the TAs took us to a special spot away from the other tourists. It was like we had our own little private beach on an island in the sun. The water was crystal clear and the sand was so white. It was a great way to spend the last afternoon on Fraser Island.

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Although Fraser Island was one of the less adventurous Spring Break options, it still was a great option and I wouldn’t change it for a thing. I went somewhere that not many people can say they’ve visited, and those kinds of experiences are part of what studying abroad is about.

100 Days in Spain

This past weekend marked the hundredth day since my arrival in Spain. One hundred days is a lot of time, and hitting triple digits made stop to reflect on the time I have spent in Europe. I really hate how cliché it sounds, but studying abroad really has been the best and hardest thing I have ever done. The ups (such as realizing how much my language skills are improving, traveling to places I’ve never been, and the amazing weather) are better than I ever could have imagine. However, the downs (for example, homesickness) have been equally extreme. Though I have more than two months before I have to return to my real life back in New Jersey, realizing how much time has past forced me to think about aspects of life in Spain, as well as throughout Europe in general, that I’m going to miss the most.

  1. Mealtimes
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Here’s a pretty picture of the Kite Festival that happened two weeks ago here because I’m really terrible at remembering to take pictures of food!

Not only are the meals at different times in Spain, but they are enjoyed in a very different way. In the United States, we strive for quick, convenient meals due to overly busy schedules and a go-go-go attitude. Enjoying a meal in Spain, and many other parts of Europe, could not be any different. Meals are seen not only as a way to suppress hunger, but also as a social event. Lunch, the biggest meal of the day, can often take up to two hours from start to finish. The time may be filled with catching up with family members, or simply enjoying a post-meal espresso with a friend. As someone who doesn’t really eat lunch at Rutgers (I usually grab an apple on the way to class), I hope to bring the habit of more relaxed, enjoyable meals back home.

  1. Bike-friendly Cities
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One of the many trusty Valenbisi stations!

Though I cannot speak for all of Europe, or even every major Spanish city, Valencia is an incredibly bike-friendly city. I use the Valencia equivalent of Citi Bike (called Valenbici) almost every singly day. In Valencia, the extensive system of bike paths are a painted part of the sidewalk instead of a lane in the middle of the road, making them some of the safest paths I’ve ever ridden a bike on. I shudder to think about the dangers of trying to navigate New Brunswick and other parts of the United States on a bike.

  1. Outdoor Dining
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Sitting outside and enjoying lunch together in Barcelona!

Every single restaurant in Spain has almost as much outdoor seating as they do indoors. At first, I thought this was mostly in part to the mild temperature and sunny skies; however, when I froze for a week in Paris while on spring break, I realized that there were just as many outdoor seating options. In the months that I’ve spent in Spain, I’ve really grown to love eating outdoors, even if I’m just enjoying a simple café cortado and a croissant. When I thought about it, I could only name two or three restaurants in New Brunswick that have the option of sitting outside. Though we couldn’t eat outdoors all year round in New Jersey, I’m going to really miss doing so in the summer when I return home.

From the beach and the palm trees to the ham sandwiches, the list of things I know I will miss about living in Spain already goes on and on. I’m sure the list will just continue to grow after I return to the states as well. Fortunately, I still have more than two months left to take every opportunity to sit outside and enjoy café con leche while I absorb as much of the Spanish culture and lifestyle as possible.

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Saying “¡Hasta Luego!” to the Spanish Siesta

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Everyday in Spain, from about 2 to 5 pm, stores lock their doors, parents pick their children up from school, and life stops to take a deep breath. The idea of taking a siesta is unique to Spanish culture, and one of its suggested origins is the extremely oppressive heat that bears down in the early afternoon. Whether or not that is the case, the siesta affects almost every aspect of Spanish life. Because of the mid-day break “descanso” (rest), businesses usually stay open until 8 or 9 pm, and restaurants begin to serve dinner later, at about the same time. In a chain reaction, it is difficult to get an early breakfast, with most cafes opening their doors at around 9am. Initially, siestas seem awesome. I mean, who wouldn’t want to take a two to three hour break from work or school every day that is specifically designed for eating and sleeping? However, Spaniards are tired of the hours that differ so greatly from the rest of Europe.

Earlier this month, the acting Prime Minister of Spain, Mariano Rajoy, proposed an elimination of the siesta. Though it is a cultural tradition, many are in favor of a nine-to-five workday. It is already easy to see a change from the traditional siesta hours in major cities such as Madrid and Barcelona.

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The second part of the proposal made by Rajoy is equally interesting. Spain is on Central-European time, which doesn’t make all that much sense, considering it is located farther west than almost all of the rest of Europe. The country used to be on the same time as Great Britain, Portugal, and Morocco—all countries that are geographically in line with Spain. However, during World War II, in order to show his alliance to Hitler and Germany, Franco made the decision to push all of the clocks ahead one hour. Because of the shift, the sun sets significantly later in Spain than it does in the rest of Europe. Rajoy’s proposal suggests shifting all of the clocks in Spain back to the time zone that makes more sense geographically. The hours of daylight that last long into the night, in addition to the cultural siesta, contribute to the late hours of the workday.

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A map of European timezones (a.k.a. Spain why are you in the same time zone as Poland??)

Both aspects of Rajoy’s proposal would cause significant changes in the daily life of people all over the country. Personally, adjusting to the siesta was very difficult for me when I first arrived in Spain. It became easier once classes began for the semester, because the university schedule doesn’t pause for siesta. For those who are not Spanish, the concept is really strange. However, though siestas are seen as one of the culturally defining aspects of Spain, they could become a part of the cultural past—along with bull-fighting and “machismo” ideas. Whatever the outcome of Rajoy’s proposal is, it is interesting to think about the delicate line that lies between recognizing and maintaining the cultural past of a country and making changes to be more modern and move forward.

When in Rome (and Florence, and Milan..)

After the experience I had while traveling this past weekend, I had to call my mother and tell her how much I appreciated each and every family vacation she had planned through the years. My mother has been the mastermind behind perfect week all over the United States—from Seattle to Key West, and everywhere in between. Every experience I have had on the Padner Annual Summer Vacation has been positive: the hotels were always clean and spacious, the restaurants authentic and delicious, and the transportation painless and efficient. After doing all of the planning to travel to Italy this past weekend with some of the other Rutgers students who are spending this semester in Valencia, I realized how much organization and prepping goes into each and every trip.

There are so many things to think about when booking a trip somewhere. For example, not only do you have to book a hotel, but you also have to research to find the safest and most interesting neighborhood in a city, as well as the closest train station and metro stops. When going out to eat, you have to make sure that the food is not only affordable for everyone you are traveling with, but that the restaurant makes food that is true to the tradition and culture of an area. The list of things to consider while traveling goes on and on, with more important points than I ever thought possible.

Going through all of the hassle of planning a trip seems intimidating at first, but results in such a rewarding feeling. I can look back on this past weekend and truly be proud of myself because I am the one that made it happen. I got myself there, despite the six hour flight delay. I was able to get around on public transportation, despite the language barrier. I saw all of the sights I wanted to, despite time constraints. This past weekend, as well as all of the planning that had to happen prior to the trip, really left me with a sense of accomplishment and maturity, and I appreciate that. I avoided becoming the victim of pickpocketing, I stayed calm when our hotel reservations had been cancelled without our knowledge, and I met a lot of really cool people.

Since I arrived in Spain, I’ve been thinking a lot about the learned habits I plan on bringing back to the United States with me. Some are simple, such as eating more olive oil. Some, like the ability to plan trips well, will be more difficult to adopt upon my return. However, there are so many places in the U.S. that I haven’t been to yet. Some, like the Delaware Water Gap, aren’t even that far from Rutgers! Now that I know how much planning and organization goes into travel, I know that I can make these shorter, more manageable trips at home a reality. Even the simplest trips need at least a little bit of planning, and the feelings of accomplishment when you put together an incredible day or weekend trip for yourself are worth going out of the way to guarantee an incredible experience, no matter where in the world you go!

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The sunset over Florence, Italy was definitely one of the best experiences I had this past weekend.

(Actual blog posts about the sites I saw and the museums I went to will be available in the coming weeks on the blog I’ve been using to document my entire study abroad experience! The url is http://www.madelinepadner.wordpress.com if you’re interested!)

“Welcome to the Church of my Thunder Thighs”

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Last Wednesday, February 10, Mary Lambert visited Rutgers for a Body Positivity Week event co-sponsored by RUPA and the Center for Social Justice Education and LGBT Communities. Before I tell you how absolutely incredible the event was, let me address the title of this post.

This post has been named for my favorite line from my favorite body positive poem that Lambert read on Wednesday. The poem was written in response to Oprah Magazine’s Creative Director’s comment that women should wear crop tops “if (and only if) you have a flat stomach.” You can read Lambert’s full poem on her blog here. But in the meantime, following the positivity of Wednesday, I have decided to name this post for a moment of a poem that made me feel happy, confident, and worthy.

For anyone who may have forgotten the incredible queer representation in Mary Lambert’s “She Keeps Me Warm” video, here’s a little reminder!

I’d also like to address the hateful, body shaming comments made on the event’s Facebook page, since the comments were addressed by Lambert herself on the night of the event. If you read the comments and felt hurt by them, or perhaps if you contributed to that negativity yourself, I want you to know that Lambert’s very first poem was a response to the Facebook commenters — and it was absolutely beautiful. Many people might be nervous to take the stage at a school that had shown them so much hate, but I’m so glad Lambert addressed the commenters with her art and then moved forward with her performance.

The most powerful point that Lambert made on the topic of Body Positivity, to me, was her point that you should acknowledge what feels good when figuring out what your body needs. If your body feels gross after eating fast food, don’t eat it. But if ice cream makes you happy, go for it! If your body needs a sluggish day in bed, great, but if a spin class would make you feel good, be sure to do that too. Listen to your body — it knows what you need.

Lambert also discussed allowing yourself to feel emotions rather than becoming numb to them. Her performances combine music and poetry, and she discusses her life experiences in a vulnerable way in order to make a connection with the audience. Sometimes, she says, she has been told that her writing is a catalyst for someone to begin dealing with their emotions. But she says that if you find that strength within yourself, that it’s all you and you should be proud. Lambert’s openness in her art was a refreshing change of pace, and the event staff definitely created a safe space, which should be commended.

Although Lambert tackles difficult topics in her writing, including body shaming and past sexual trauma, Lambert does an excellent job of also including positive messages and hilarious stories. For example, Lambert told us that she became emotional during the final rehearsal for the 2014 Grammy performance of “Same Love” because the 33 same-sex couples to be married during the performance came out during the rehearsal, and Madonna wiped away Lambert’s tears. In response to being touched by Madonna, Lambert says, “That was the best sex I ever had!”

Thank you to everyone who made this event the wonderful evening that it was. Thanks to Verbal Mayhem for their opening poems, which set the mood for the event, and to Michael Anderson, the host for the evening! I am grateful to have had this opportunity at Rutgers.

Thanks to Brayden Donnelly at the Daily Targum for the use of this video! Check out the Targum’s YouTube page here and the Daily Targum website here.