Prepare Yourself

November is almost over and we all know what that means…FINALS 😦 Finals and the weeks leading up to them can be super stressful for most of us, so I thought I would compile a list of some ways to make it a little more bearable!

1. Make a list of everything you have to do

This one may seem really obvious, but it’s really easy to push things off until the last minute. I think the most helpful thing you can do for yourself is to create a list of ALL the assignments and important due dates you have coming up. I recently made one of these for myself, and though it was a little stressful seeing all of those assignments to complete, I felt so much better knowing that I (sort of) have everything under control. Plus, it’s so satisfying to cross things off of my list as I finish them.

2. Use Forest! (or a similar app)

I may have mentioned Forest in a post a while back, but this app is responsible for 90% of my productivity. Once you set the timer on your phone, you can’t use it until the time is up (otherwise you will kill the tree). I think this was a paid app (maybe $2?) but I’ve been using this for over a year now, and it has definitely been worth it. It’s is the perfect way to make sure that you can’t get distracted by your phone. I also recently discovered that there is a free forest chrome extension that allows you to choose websites to blacklist. I use this to block YouTube and Netflix while I am in the middle of a study session, but this might be also helpful for anyone who wants to use it to block social media!

3. Make a study playlist

Everyone is different, and some people like to study with music while others don’t. For me, it depends on how much concentration I need to do. So I have a bunch of playlists (really, I have too many), and I choose what I want to work to based on my mood. For example, I have one with soundtracks like Pirates of the Caribbean and Game of Thrones, and I have another playlist with classical music for when I want to feel calmer. I also find lofi hip-hop playlists on YouTube pretty relaxing to listen to. Music can help you feel better when you are feeling down!

4. Include breaks in your schedule–and make sure you take them!

I used to have this really bad habit of setting aside break times, only to end up ignoring them and continue studying. But I learned the hard way that this only makes you feel more tired and burnt out from work later on. Sometimes I read, sketch or do a little bit of yoga during a break–just anything that allows me to step away from the work for a few minutes. Although you may feel like you don’t need a break, your brain will thank you!

I know most of these tips are things you all know already, it helps to keep them in the back of your mind. Now, I just hope  will follow my own advice 🙂


Hunting Prince Dracula Book Review

One of my favorite things to do in October (other than eating apple cider donuts and going pumpkin picking) is reading scary books! I don’t do well with horror movies, so I turn to books to get my scare fill. This month, I read Hunting Prince Dracula by Kerri Maniscalco, and I think it was the PERFECT autumn read! hpd book cover

Hunting Prince Dracula is the second book in the Stalking Jack the Ripper series by Kerri Maniscalco (BTW: I will not be spoiling either book in this review, but you definitely should read the first book before picking up this one). Following the events of the first book, the main characters, Audrey and Thomas are both traveling from London to Romania to attend a forensic academy at Bran Castle for four weeks. There they will undergo an assessment to possibly secure a permanent spot in the academy. In the first book, Audrey and Thomas were both working on the case of Jack the Ripper, and in this book, they are investigating the mysterious appearances of bodies drained of blood and/or staked through the heart.

This book is pretty fast paced. From the first chapter, we jump into the mystery and action, and it doesn’t slow down. As the story progresses, we pick up different clues, so that we can formulate our own opinions on who is responsible for the crimes, and what is going on in the academy. I also appreciate the romance sub-plot, as it adds to the story without taking the focus away from the mystery at hand.

The plot is exciting, but my favorite part of this book has to be the characters. Audrey and Thomas are two of the best YA characters I have ever read about. Audrey is intelligent and curious (sometimes too much for her own good), and she does not let anyone try to take control of her life. She is headstrong and funny, and it’s refreshing to read the book through her keen eyes. Thomas is the other main character, and he also happens to be the love interest in this series. I could talk about his character for hours, but I will try to keep my gushing to a minimum 🙂 Thomas is probably the funniest character I have ever read. He is hilarious and provides a perfect dose of humor into the dark mystery of the rest of the book. Like Audrey, he is also very smart and picks out clues from pretty much anything around him. And like any well-fleshed out character, Thomas has his own set of flaws, which we see him try his best to address.

To me, a book can have the most exciting plot, but if the characters don’t feel realistic, then I just can’t lose myself in it. And I personally think that Hunting Prince Dracula has the perfect blend of plot + characters. So if you are looking for some good books to read this season, I definitely suggest picking up Stalking Jack the Ripper and then Hunting Prince Dracula. The first book in the series is also an immersive, dark mystery, that I think will appeal to a lot of readers no matter what genre you favor!

Trying New Classes

If I could give any new student advice, it would be to not be afraid to try new classes in college. I learned this the hard way. You never know what you’re good at until you try it yourself!

I went to a biology/research oriented high school. And after four years of being surrounded by life sciences, I felt like that was what I was good at and what I should continue studying in college. To be honest, I never really had a passion for biology. I liked it because I got good grades, but I wasn’t excited about it. When I first came to Rutgers and we had to choose the classes we would be taking, I wanted to jump right into classes for a biology major. I was afraid to try new classes, mostly because I am a person who likes familiarity. Classes like chemistry and biology were familiar and felt safe to me.

So for my first year of college, I persuaded myself that Cell Biology and Neuroscience was the major for me and the one I would be most successful with. But during my second semester, I realized that I wasn’t happy. I didn’t look forward to any of my classes, and I kept questioning why I chose to be a bio major. So I talked to my dean and I decided that the next semester (the first one of sophomore year), I would take a mix of classes and just try them out.

And by trying a mix of classes, I learned that psychology is where my passion lies.

One of the classes I took that semester was Cognition, and it is probably the best class I have ever taken at Rutgers. It was so interesting, and I was just so excited to go to every class. I attended the office hour discussions to learn more about the subject, and I even went to some of the events that were related to the class. I had never felt so excited about a class, and I honestly didn’t know it was possible to like a subject that much.

That’s when I realized that I would be a lot more successful (and happier) if I continued studied psychology. I do feel like my first year was a bit of a waste, and I wish that I was more open-minded and let myself try new classes during my first year of college. But it’s too late for those regrets. I am just thankful that I was able to find a subject that I really enjoy and look forward to learning.

Anyways, I feel like I am rambling a bit, but the point that I am trying to make is that it is good to try new things. You will never know what you are good at or what is calling out to you until you explore what Rutgers has to offer. I have heard countless times from deans and professors that most students change their majors at least once. And I totally understand why. College is so different from high school. Not only do you change, but your interests might too, and you will never be sure what you are passionate about until you try it yourself! So don’t be afraid to try new things!

A Lesson from Thor: Ragnarok

By the time this post is up, the release of Avengers’s Infinity War will be only a day away!

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Over the past few months I have been re-watching the Marvel movies in anticipation for the new Avengers, and one of my top favorite movies is Thor: Raganarok. I felt a connection to this movie not only because it was hilarious, but because I felt like I could relate to one of the central themes of the movie. I’m sure most of you have already watched this movie, but in case you haven’t, I will be discussing spoilers 🙂

In this movie, Thor lost his hammer, his hair, and his eye.  These were all physical things that he thought made him the powerful person he is (well, the eye is an extreme example, but you get the idea). He thought that without his hammer, he would have less strength and be less capable of doing what he was able to do with it. He initially felt lost without his hammer, as if a part of his identity was gone with it. At some point in the movie, while Thor is doubting his abilities sans hammer, Odin asks him “Are you the god of hammers?” It was at that moment that he really realized that the hammer is just an object. It does not solely give him strength or unique abilities, as he has power within him. And he is able to do incredible things even without the hammer!

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This is what raw power looks like.

We all go through rough patches in life. Sometimes we are put in situations where we feel like we are disadvantaged or as if we are deprived, and are consequentially farther from reaching our goals. It is normal to feel less capable when we do not have the same resources as someone else has. But inside, we have the power to shape who we want to be. When we are placed into a tough situation, instead of dwelling on the negative aspects and on what is keeping us from moving forward, we should instead look at the positives. We all have the power to change a situation from bad to good, and half of that battle is our attitude toward the problem.

I think that this is important to remember as we approach finals well. I have noticed a lot of negativity swirling around in my classes (and I regret to admit that I also contribute to that cloud of sadness). We should all keep in mind that no matter lost we may feel, how many assignments may be piling up, or how many tests may be approaching, we do have some level of control over our outcomes. Instead of focusing our energy on negative things like how many days we have left before exams, or how many more topics we have to cover, its more worthwhile to find ways to boost our self-esteem and get things done. I realize that this is a stretch from the Thor lesson, but I believe that we all have strength within us. Negativity is like Thor’s hammer in the sense that it keeps us from recognizing our true potential. I feel like my thoughts were a little disorganized, but I really do think that Thor taught us a great lesson about taking advantage of our inner power!


The Perfect Study Session

Something that I have noticed about myself is that it is really hard for me to be productive if I don’t have the pressure of an exam or a deadline to push me to get work done in advance. I’ve procrastinated more than usual on important assignments recently because I just could not get into the “study mode.” If I am not in the “mode,” I either take a much longer time to get work done, or I don’t fully understand what I am working on. And that is just a huge waste of time! So I made a list of some of the things that I do to help myself get into that study zone and be more productive during a study session!

1. Get a drink and snacks

Hunger is my biggest distraction while I am studying. There is nothing worse than getting in the “study zone” only to feel hungry and realize that I didn’t bring any snacks with me. And that has actually happened to me multiple times. So now, I make sure to bring granola bars or fruits with me when I study. I personally like nuts, grapes, blueberries, or other small snacks that I can continually pop into my mouth whenever I feel the hunger. I also make sure to always have water with me, or if I am at home, I make a cup of tea!

2. Put on some study music

Study music is the second most important thing for me when it comes to creating a perfect study atmosphere. It depends on how I feel that day, but I usually either listen to movie instrumentals or white noise. I don’t want the music to distract me, but at the same time, I get distracted when it is too quiet. My favorite instrumental soundtracks include Game of Thrones, Pirates of the Caribbean, and Guardians of the Galaxy. Such music tends to keep me awake and helps me focus. If I don’t feel like listening to actual music, I play Harry Potter or Lord of the Rings ASMR on YouTube.

3. Gather all of your tools

It may sound self-explanatory to prepare all of your tools before you study, but you would be surprised at how many times I have forgotten something essential. I like to take elaborate notes, so I always have to make sure that I have my highlighters, colored pens, post-its, and white out with me, otherwise, I can’t take my notes the way I want to take them. It may sound unnecessary, but sometimes, taking the time to make pretty notes helps you to study more effectively. I have found that when I make my notes colorful, I am able to better remember the information later on, and it is more fun to study those notes before the exam!

4. Light a scented candle (if you are studying at home)

I have recently started using an apple scented candle while I study, and it really does make a difference! The smell instantly makes me feel good and takes away some of the stress that is usually accompanied with a study session. I recently read this article about how smells can help enhance memory recall, and I think its an interesting concept that I would like to try!

These are some of the essentials that I have noticed make a huge difference when I am trying to create a productive study environment. I hope they can help anyone who has trouble getting into or staying in the study zone!

Battling Self-Deprecation

Self-deprecation is something that affects everyone, some more than most. For me, it is still something that I am battling today. But I have realized recently, that in order to improve my self-image and become the person that I truly want to be, I have to be aware of the bad habits that I engage in that lead to the lower image that I have of myself. I am going to identify two of these habits and address ways that I over come them. And hopefully, I might be able to help some of you who suffer from low self-esteem too.

1. Do you compare yourself to other people?

One of the biggest problems that I face, is that I compare myself with my classmates.  I look at other students and wish that I could be as smart, as social, or as productive as they are. These thoughts only make me feel inadequate. They don’t help me become a better person; they only bring me down. Now, whenever I find myself comparing my capabilities to other people, instead of thinking about how much I don’t like about myself, I think about how much I do like. For example, I think about how I am proud of the amount of work that I have done for the class, and I remind myself that I put in as much effort as I can. Those small reminders really help me feel more confident in myself, so try it the next time you feel like you are not as good as your peers!

2. Do you ever feel like you are not living up to your own expectations?

We all set high expectations for ourselves. We want the best grades, while also being able to balance extracurriculars, maintain our health/fitness goals, and build strong social relationships. Realistically, it is not fair to hold ourselves to such high standards and expect to attain all of them, because if we fail to achieve everything we want, it can lead to feelings of inadequacy. Instead, we should reevaluate our expectations of ourselves. For example, I make goals in my journal that I hope to achieve in the month. They are not crazy goals like “get an A on every exam” or “work out every day”. Those are extreme goals that I know I cannot meet. Instead, I make reasonable goals like “work out at least twice a week” and “start preparing at least two weeks in advance for each exam”. Those may not seem like very specific goals, or it may not seem like I am pushing myself enough, but honestly goals like these have been working for me. They remind me of what I want to accomplish, while actually being within my range of abilities. And when I am able to accomplish these goals, it feels really good and motivating!

I know how hard it is to stop comparing yourself to others, because I used to do it all of the time. But it only does more harm then good. I am overcoming these self-deprecating habits and you can too! Stop wishing you were someone else, and instead learn to love the person that you are. Recognize your strong points and use them to your advantage. I have given you two tips that have greatly helped me, so now I challenge you…to become the best and most confident version of yourself!

Making Goals and Sticking with Them

It’s 2018, and although some of us are sick of hearing it, many of us believe in a “New Year, New Me”. We all have goals to achieve or things that we want to change in our lives, and the new year is the perfect time to be inspired to do something different. But most of the time, we have a surge of inspiration at the beginning of the year, and then that quickly dies down and we fall into the same habits that we had the previous year. I am personally tired of watching my years go by without making changes in my life, so I am trying a new method to achieving my goals this year.

This year, one of my goals is to consistently bullet journal. Last year, when I started bullet journaling, I made too much of an effort to make it fancy, and I quickly grew exhausted and dreaded making spreads. So this year, I am going with simple but colorful spreads that do not require too much effort, and get the job done. Bullet journaling helps me keep track of what I do each day, and helps me make sure that I am keeping on top of my goals. One of the tools that I use to keep track of what I do each day is a habit tracker.

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Here is a gorgeous example of a habit tracker!

This is an example of someone else’s tracker that I used as a reference for my own. In my January habit tracker, I have activities like: exercise, drink green tea, read, draw/color, and Bible reading. Each night, I reflect on my day, and color in the little box that corresponds to what activity I did that day. Of course, each day I do not accomplish every goal/activity, so there are some gaps in my spread, but nobody’s perfect! Making a habit tracker, whether in a journal, or on a loose-leaf sheet of paper, is helpful, because it helps me to keep in mind what my resolutions are, and then I don’t forget about them.

Another way that I am keeping track of my goals, is by using my phone/laptop reminders. I am one of those people who cannot survive without reminders. I use reminders for due dates, for events, for homework, anything and everything you can think of! I have also started using my reminders to help me with daily activities. For example, I have a reminder that pops up every day and tells me to take my vitamins  (I always forget about them!). You can also set a reminder in the night to tell you to floss, or you can set one in the morning to remind you to do yoga before you officially start your day. These are really helpful, because although it is possible to forget about a journal, our phones are constantly with us. So why not use them in a way that will help us achieve our goals!

This year, we can all be successful in achieving goals. Don’t be discouraged if you feel like you can’t keep on top of every goal. Even keeping up with one resolution will make a change in your life, and that’s a huge accomplishment!

Lessons Learned as a Commuter

Rutgers has a lot of commuter students, and as a commuter student myself, I love to read about everyone’s experiences. I always learn something new! This semester was my first being a commuter student. Unfortunately I had a few days that my classes were spread out, and I would have as much as four hours between them. Personally, I found it really hard to make the most out of this time, as I would lose concentration, or not be sufficiently prepared. Here are some of my own tips that I lived by this semester as a commuter:

1. Bring your laptop charger.

During days when you are on campus for a long time, your laptop battery will drain. It goes especially fast if you are using it to watch Netflix during a break or listening to music on it. There were so many days that I forgot my charger, and I had to use the computer labs because I had to save my laptop batter for my evening class. There are actually a lot of charging spots all around buildings and at the libraries, so you will mostly likely always find an outlet to use.

2. Use the computer labs.

I used to only use the computer labs when I had to save my laptop battery, but I found that you can be really productive there. When I work at the computer labs, I am surrounded by people who are also doing work, and it helps me concentrate. I don’t feel tempted to go on Netflix or Buzzfeed, and I just finish my work instead. Also there are usually printers so you can print out study materials that you might need.

3. Bring enough snacks with you.

The biggest reason for my distraction is hunger. I get hungry really quickly, especially when I am doing work. So I always keep snacks that aren’t messy and keep me full. Some of my favorite snacks that I keep with me are grapes, Belvita bars, mixed nuts, and granola bars. If you don’t have enough time to grab food between classes, snacks can be very helpful!

4. Get study buddies in every class.

Things happen all the time. Whether it be illness, traffic, or something else, it is always helpful to have someone in class who you can talk to about homework or exchange notes with. I try to make at least one friend in each class, that way if I need to get the notes from someone, I have their contact information. I have also set up study meetings with those same people before exams, and they have always been very helpful. Many people in your classes are also looking for a study buddy, so it should be easy to find one!

5. Make time to meet up with your friends.

This I think is the most important tip for any commuter student. When I lived at school, it was so easy to meet up with friends for lunch or study with them because they all lived nearby, or just a bus ride away. Now that I don’t live at school, it is harder for me to meet with them. Sometimes it requires me staying at school later, but in the end, it is worth it to make time for my friends. Whether we are studying or just hanging out, I always feel recharged and happy after spending time with people who make me laugh!

The experience of being a commuter student is different for each person depending on the length of their commute and the way their schedule is set. In the end, it does help you to learn how to be more productive during breaks between classes, and does force you to plan your days more so that you make the time to spend with friends or working. I learned a lot from my first semester as a commuter student, and am excited to see what it will be like next semester.

A Month of Writing

November is a really exciting month. Not only is there Thanksgiving to look forward to, but we are also so much closer to winter break! For me, this November is also exciting because of Nanowrimo, or National Novel Writing Month.

Nanowrimo is a writing project where participants attempt to write 50,000 words during the month of November. If you sign up on the website, it sends you writing advice, and also allows you to log the amount of words that you write each day. That way, you can see your progress throughout the event, and win some prizes if you reach that goal!

This year, I decided to take part in Nanowrimo. I attempted it two years ago, but could not get past the first few days, because I fell into the trap of worrying that my story was not good. I was also editing as I wrote, which was a horrible idea. This made me feel really discouraged, and it clogged my writing flow. It made me feel stressed out and made writing feel more like a chore rather than something I enjoy. So this year, I am taking a completely different approach to writing than I did in the past.

To combat that writer’s block that I felt in the past, I changed my personal goal for this year. Although the official goal of Nanowrimo is ideally to reach 50,000 words by the end of the month, my personal goal is just to make time to write something each day. Of course around exam times, I cannot get much done, but I still try to write at least 600 words per day. Although this number is far from the official 1,667 words per day goal, the way I see it, at the end of the month I will have 18,000 words written that would not have been there at all if I didn’t attempt Nanowrimo.

Writing requires a commitment, but if you have a passion for writing and a story to tell, then you should definitely make the time for it! I thought that I would share some of my tips that are helping me write and could help you too!

1. Write what you know

I am an avid fantasy reader. I just love the feeling of escaping reality and entering a new world full of crazy creatures and ideas that you would never see in real life. For a long time now, I have wanted to write a fantasy novel, and I have had an idea bouncing around in my head, so I thought that it was finally time to sit down and try to transfer my ideas from my head to my Word document. Since I have a pretty good knowledge about the features of a fantasy novel, I know (for the most part) some of the major components that I want to include in my writing.

2. Get inspired

A lot of the inspiration that I get for my writing comes from Pinterest or Tumblr. Whenever I need ideas about a landscape, characters, or fashion, I go to Pinterest and scroll through pictures until I find something that fits with what I am looking for. On Pinterest, I also create boards to separate and organize those little bits of inspiration, so they are easy to find later when I need them.

3. Take advantage of any extra time in the day

Writing consistently is easier said than done. I know how difficult it can be to get time to write when there is so much work to do and when we are always so tired. Most people say that the best way to get writing done is to set aside a time to write, but unfortunately this method doesn’t always work for me. Instead, I get most of my writing done before classes or when I am taking a break in between studying. I usually write in small bursts where I write down what I am picturing in my head. For me, this “less-structured” style of writing allows me to get my ideas down without feeling pressured or burnt-out.

I know my post was about Nanowrimo, but really any day of any month is perfect for writing. There are always going to be distractions and other things to do in life, but as long as you have a story to tell, you should give it a go! Grab a cup of tea, turn off the phone and break out the pen and paper–you will be surprised with what ideas start flowing out of your mind!



Boo to You!

Halloween is just around the corner, and I can feel the excitement in the air! This year, I celebrated Halloween early in September when I went to Disney World. I attended Mickey’s Not-So-Scary Halloween Party for the first time, and it was amazing! Since it is almost Halloween, I thought that I would share my experience with all of you.

Disney is known for its elaborate holiday events. They have the Flower and Garden Festival in the Spring, The Food and Wine Festival in the Fall, the Mickey’s not-so-scary Halloween party during September and October, and Mickey’s Very Merry Christmas Party during November and December. I have been to the Flower and Garden Festival many times and I have also been to Disney around Christmas multiple times, so I can confidently say that Disney goes all out when it comes to events. It has always been mine and my sister’s dream to attend the Halloween party, but we never visited Disney during that time period. This summer, we were there at the start of September, and Disney held their Halloween parties early, so we jumped at the opportunity to attend! And let me tell you, it was worth every penny.

The decorations in Magic Kingdom are truly beautiful. During the party, there were fog machines at the front of the park, and loud Halloween music was playing to set the mood. Also, most of the visitors and cast members are dressed in creative and elaborate costumes. It felt nothing like a normal day at the parks!

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At the Halloween party, there are many characters that you can line up to take pictures with that you normally cannot find at the parks: Jack and Sally, the Seven Dwarfs, Jack Sparrow and more! I have always wanted to meet Jack Sparrow, so that was the highlight of my night.

Since it is a Halloween party, I also got to trick-or-treat! I personally haven’t been trick or treating since middle school days, and it is something that I missed a lot! At Disney, they encourage everyone (yes, even the adults) to trick-or-treat! As soon as you get there, you are given a bag and a list of all of the candy stations around the park, where you can pick up some treats (and you can go back as many times as you’d like!).

Of course, Disney wouldn’t be Disney without a special parade and firework show. The parade is called “Boo to You” and the fireworks show is “Hallowishes”. During the firework show, there were projections on the castle that went went along with the music. It was so much fun to sing and scream along. The fireworks were great, but I think that the parade was even better. During the parade, you see characters that are not in the daytime parades, such as the hyenas from the lion king, Oogie boogie, a whole float full of villains, and so many ghouls from the Haunted Mansion!


The Haunted Mansion performers had really beautiful costumes and their dancing was really good!

Mickey’s Not-So-Scary Halloween Party is an experience that I highly recommend to people of all ages. It’s so much fun to get dressed and see other people’s costumes. Also there are so many different things to do like meeting special characters, going trick-or-treating, and eating special treats that are only available during the party. It is something that I will never forget, and I really hope that I will be able to attend again one day!